• Things I Wished My Mother had NOT Taught me about Marriage: A Must Read

    I grew up with a single mother. My mother and father divorced when I was very young, so the majority of my life I grew up in a single parent household. My parents had their share of problems so when they separated my mother had a very negative opinion about my father and men in general. As a result her opinion of men changed for the worst as she spoke her opinions very strongly to her three daughters.

  • Becoming the Man of Her Dreams

    Take a good look at yourself. Examine your face, hands,character, heart, etc. You are someone's answer to prayer. Youare the husband she is dreaming about now. You are the man ofher Dreams. In fact you are exceedingly abundantly above all shecan ask or think. You may not feel like it right now but this iswho you are.

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  • Your Calling, Marriage and Finances

    Marriage provides the opportunity to have the relationship you’ve often dreamed about, start a family, and raise kids. It can be a great stabilizer to the newly married but can also cause concern for the husband who is seen as the provider of the family. Having such an important and responsible position may cause a new groom to panic, but having Jesus as the Lord of your home can relieve much of the pressure.

  • Approaching Her

    I receive a lot of emails from female readers who tell me someone has crossed their path and they are not sure if the person is from God. They can see this person is interested in them but for some reason are confused as to why he isn’t speaking to her. They are reluctant to go further because the man they are interested in will not speak up. This dance can go on for a while as they wait for him to make the first move.

  • Preparing for the Times Ahead

    As this dispensation of grace winds down the Father has beenpreparing His people to be ready for what’s coming on the earth. Nodoubt He needs men like you in place to help usher in the coming ofChrist. As strong men in Christ and the head of the family,you will play an important role in what God wants to do in theearth. As the backbone of your own family to come, now is the timeto answer the Father’s call and prepare for what is coming to theearth.

  • Will I Ever Marry the Person God has for Me?" 

    A friend called lamenting that as she awakens each morning, welcoming a new day, she is not that excited because one day ends up looking just like the previous day before. It could be a beautiful, sunny day but she is plagued with the same questions she asked herself many times before. As the days, months and sometimes years pass by, you may be asking yourself the same heartbreaking questions, "Will I ever get to know my mate?" "Will I ever marry the person God has for me?"

  • God is Not a Waiter

    You walk into your favorite restaurant and after being seated, you anxiously consider what dish you plan to order. As you sit for a few minutes, the waiter approaches you with a menu in hand asking for your drinkorder. He disappears then reappears with yourrefreshments and with pad-in-hand wondering what you have chosen from the menu.

  • "Get Married" . . .Is What the Lord Said

    "Get married!" It was the answer the Lord have given me, as I askedhim for a solution to a small but major crisis I was experiencing.The crisis was I would need finances to pay the rent on an apartmentthe following month or I would have to leave. If you have ever livedin an apartment, you know the owners take quick action to evict you if they don't receive their money quickly.

  • Doing God’s Will

    God has created every single individual special in His sight. Andeach of us is to radiate and to bring forth a particular aspect ofGod himself. Whatever God wants us to be He gives us different ability tofunction and to bring Him glory. Therefore the one with greatintellectual ability cannot boast because that ability also came from God. The one with great skill and talent in music or in artcannot boast because that ability came from God as a result of God'sdestiny in their life.

  • What to Do When Every Day Looks the Same

    Are you feeling hopeless? Do you ever catch yourself looking out ofthe window thinking, when will it get better? It may appear as though your prayers aren't being heard or God isout somewhere tending to other business too busy to answer you, butit is simply not true. As we step out to appropriate what God has already provided for usin His Word there are times when it looks like nothing is happening.

  • It’s Time for a Fresh Commitment in Believing God for Your Mate

    As Time Ticks Away and we see more and more of the end timeprophecies play out in our news, this is a good time to renew yourcommitment in believing God for your mate. God wants you married and associating with the people He has assigned to be in your life. Godhas big plans for you and He often schedules change or promotionthrough the people He appoints in your life.

  • When the Path is Hard

    When the path seems hard and what should be working isn’t, do yougive up or keep going? With your growth in Christ sometimes He’ll put you into the fire tolet you see what is in you. When the path gets hard it is oftentimes He’s working out wrong ideas you had lodge in your soul thatwasn’t serving you but causing problems.

  • A Word in Due Season

    Stephany has longed to see her marriage come to fruition. She hasbeen seeking God in this area for quite some time now. While shedoesn't understand all the intricacies of her situation, she'sdetermined to have God's chosen mate. There aren't a lot of people she can talk about this with becausethey simply will tell her to quit. She wants to believe God butdoesn't think she can hold out for much longer if nothing changes.

  • Faith & Intercession

    Oftentimes our physical circumstances seem to depict the directopposite of what God wants for our lives. So when we set out to align it with the plans and will of God,opposition to His Will is the first obstacle we must face. When this happens, intercession plays a major role in seeing theWill of God perfected in our lives and the plans that God has forus.

  • The Ultimate distraction

    Want to know the Ultimate distractionsatan uses against believers' who are trusting God for theirmate? If you are a man, it's that beautiful woman who can't stopflirting with you. Or, if you are a woman, it's thathandsome man that can't keep his eyes off of you. There isnothing wrong when the opposite sex is attracted to you. Itcan be a huge compliment. However, if you are in the midstof believing God for your mate, their attraction can becomea stumbling block for you.

  • FAITH - the Believer’s Currency

    If you are familiar with our site you probably notice that thesubject of faith is often discussed more than any other topic. Thereason why I try to cover different aspects of faith because (otherthan getting saved) learning how to operate by faith is one of themost important topics you'll ever need to learn. Learning to operate by faith will not only help you receive the mateGod has for you but all the blessings and provision given to us by God.

  • Write the Vision MAKE IT PLAIN

    In Habakkuk 2:2-3 the Lord said, ‘…write the vision, and make itplain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it. For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shallspeak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it willsurely come, it will not tarry. But did you know personal visions that God gives to each of us mustbe written in our hearts and minds before we see it.

  • BUILDING your Marriage

    Except the Lord Build the House They Labor in Vain that Build it...Psalms 127:1 Meditating on God'sWord is key In order to be able to see the things we need come to pass (i.e., your mate.) Meditation is a must. If you are believing God for anything, mediation must be done evenbefore the Prayer of Petition is prayed. Because before we can speak with confidence to the mountain ofsingleness and tell it to be removed,

  • The keys of the kingdom

    And I will give unto thee the Keys of the Kingdom of Heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatsoever thou shalt loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.
    Matthew 16:19. "You Have Been Given the KEYS OF THE KINGDOM to Allow The Things That Are God's Will And Disallowed The Things That Aren't.

  • The Importance of Hearing God’s Voice

    God may have given you a Word that it is your season to believe Himfor your mate or you may be pursuing it because it's in His Word.While others may be faced with the dilemma of having someone intheir lives and are not sure the person is from God or not. Whatever the case, reaching the next stage will involve hearing God

  • FAITH ... A ‘RECEIVER’

    The Definition of lifestyle is this, 'a manner of living thatreflects the person's values and attitudes.' Could your lifestyle be keeping the promises of God at bay? Sincefaith is God's way of bringing into our lives the things He hasalready given us in His Word, yet there are some whose faith doesnot produce the results they need. The Bible says in Matthew 6:33, 'But seek ye first the kingdom ofGod, . .

  • WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE PRAY

    I dreamed that I went to heaven and an angel was showing me around. Wewalked side-by-side inside a large workroom filled with angels. My angel guide stopped in front of the first section and said, “This is theReceiving Section. Here, all petitions to God said in prayer are received.” I looked around in this area, and it was terribly busy with so many angels sorting out petitions written on voluminous paper sheets,...

  • The Future You Want is Now

    I talk about faith a lot but it seems there are many people who don’tquite understand it. When I hear terms like, “I am waiting for God to send my mate” or “waiting for the manifestation of my mate” and they are sitting idly bywaiting for a day in the future when God delivers the person to themwhile ignoring the present moment, this not faith.

  • How I Learned Its Better to YIELD to the Lord

    It was after God had given me many confirmations that one night God gave me a vivid dream. In the dream, God instructed me to stand in a certain place. I knew my mate walked the path in which God wanted me to stand. You see, we had classes in the same building but our classes were on different sides of the building. In the dream, God told me to stand in a spot where I knew my mate would see me.

  • Desire or Indifference?

    PWithout a strong desire for marriage you can let indifference seep in and destroy your chances for having the marriage you want. Desire is more than just merely wanting something. According to the dictionary, desire means - the feeling that accompanies an unsatisfied state, but desire is more than that. In the faith realm, your desire locates you.

  • The Unfulfilled Life of a Casual Christian

    After being gloriously saved, a believer won't set out to be a casual christian. It happens little by little. The reasons are many but most of the time it begins with a devastating event by which the person feels God should not have let happen that did happen. Through their immaturity and lack of wisdom they blame God for this tramatic event and begin to sour towards the things of God

  • Word of the Lord

    I'm sure you are aware that we are living in the End times. The time right before Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ will make his triumphant return to the earth. As we approach the times that are outlined in the book of Revelation and Daniel etc, I'm sure you are aware that some challenges lay ahead of us. If you have been watching the news, you know our world is in turmoil.

  • Staying Faithful

    Believing God for your mate can sometimes be a challenge, like seeing the unsaved engaged in all sorts of behavior that is not pleasing to God. It can make a person angry if you let it especially if they end up married before you enjoying the blessings of God when they don't even acknowledge Him. Yeah, it rains on the just and the unjust but sometimes it can seem that the believer endures the storm more than others.